Dating With Borders

FAQ

Real answers. No fluff. Just dating help that actually works.

Do you actually take over my dating profile?

We sure can (with your blessing, of course). Whether you want us to craft your profile, help with messaging, or manage the whole dang thing—we’re here to step in, clean it up, and make it work for you.

Will you help me write messages?

Yes—and we’ll do it way better than “hey.” From first message to date setup, we help you sound like your best, most flirty self (without sounding like ChatGPT wrote it 😉).

What if I’m not tech-savvy or hate apps?

No problem. We can help you set up, swipe smarter, and stay sane. You bring the vibe—we’ll bring the strategy.

I’m separated/divorced/a single parent—will this still work for me?

Absolutely. We specialize in helping people get back out there at any stage. Whether it’s your first app or your fiftieth reboot, we’ve got you.

Is this catfishing?

Nope. We don’t pretend to be you—we just help you show up as your best self. You’re still in the driver’s seat. We’re just here to hand you the GPS (and maybe send a few messages if you’re too busy living life).

What if I’m already messaging someone—can you help mid-convo?

Totally. We love decoding mixed signals and turning dead-end chats into actual dates. Think of us as your personal texting coach.

Will you tell me who to date?

No—and yes. You’re always in charge, but we’ll screen matches, flag red flags, and suggest people who actually make sense for you.

What if I find someone?!

Then we pop the champagne 🎉 And if you want support for navigating early dating or new relationships, we offer coaching to help you keep the spark alive (and the weird texting energy low).

Is this confidential?

100%. Your secrets (and screenshots) are safe with us. Everything we do is private and judgment-free.

Can I just get help with one thing—like my bio or a specific match?

Yup. Check out our a la carte offerings. Whether it’s one message or a full makeover, we’re here when you need us.

Is this… legal?

Yes. Totally. 100%.

Will I still be involved in messaging?

That’s up to you. Want us to take over completely? We can. Want to tag-team the convos or just get advice along the way? Also, totally fine. It’s your dating life—we’re just here to make it easier.

What if I’m not photogenic?

You’re probably more photogenic than you think. But we also offer expert photo advice and can even point you to photographers who specialize in dating app shots.

Do you guarantee matches or relationships?

We don’t guarantee love—but we do guarantee a smarter, smoother, and more strategic dating experience. (And yes, our clients go on real dates—and many end up in real relationships.)

What if I’m LGBTQ+?

You’re absolutely welcome here. We’re proud to support all identities and orientations, and we tailor everything to your unique preferences and goals.

How do you help with generic online dating app prompts (like “What’s your typical Sunday? Or …)

Great question! We specialize in taking even the most common prompt and tuning them into standout answers that feel natural, engaging, and true to you. Our team learns about your personality, interests, and sense of humor then crafts responses that reflect your voice and spark conversation and connection.

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